Love or Lust?

Guys, Girls and Gays out there. How can you tell whether it's love or lust that you feel? Here are a few tips to help you sort things out.

It's lust if:

You're totally focused on the looks and body 
Even before you know the name, you're already fantasizing about what the looks like naked and what it would be like to have sex with this person.

You don't care about anything this person has to say 
It wouldn't make a difference to you if you never had a conversation. You don't bother to return calls promptly and you can easily go for days without talking to this until you get horny again.

You only want to be with this person to have sex 
You make excuses not to spend time, except for sex. And if  this person asks you for a favor, you tell you're too busy. If  you have to be with this person and not have sex, you find yourself fantasizing about someone else.

 Just for booty call
After you go out trolling for tail with your buddies on Friday night, you then call at 1 a.m. for some drunken action. Ah, the booty call.

You leave after sex
After having sex, you look for the easiest way to leave. No cuddling, no breakfast the next morning, just say"I gotta go."

It's love if:

You have great chemistry

You get lost in your conversations, and the hours pass like minutes. You're more than willing to listen when this person talks about his/her day. The chemistry between you is remarkable.

You find this person wonderful or beautiful

Even if you catch this person with no get up on while sweats are all over the face, he/she still looks wonderful or beautiful to you.

You want to spend time

All you want to do is to be with this person, whether you're having sex or not. Even if he/she tells you that sex will have to wait, you don't care at all. 

You see a future together

You experience the strange feeling that your life would be totally empty without this person. You tell your friends and family that he/she may be the One, and you're even thinking about marrying him/her.

You introduce this person to your family

It becomes very important to you that your parents like this person, and gets along with everyone close to you. 

You include this person in all your plans

Whether you're going out with your male or female friends or taking your dog for a walk, you want him/her there with you. And if this person is not there, you can't get him/her off your mind and sneak off to give him a quick "I miss you" phone call. Of course, you don't tell your buddies.

You are more romantic

All of a sudden you find yourself listening to cheesy romantic songs and thinking of this person. You send gifts and love notes to set up romantic date.

You always take this person's side

If someone says anything even slightly disparaging about this person, you immediately rise for defense. Furthermore, in social gatherings, you always agree with him/her even if you disagree behind closed doors.

This person makes you want to be a better person 

He/she challenges and motivates you, makes you happy, and you'd do anything to make him/her happy too.

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